AG Chapel

2 11 2010

This morning I had the awesome privilege of speaking at the AG Headquarters Chapel Service in Springfield, MO.  I was a little nervous to say the least!  So many amazing men and women of God have taught in that place and because of that the several hundred in attendance have heard the “best of the best.”  And then there was me!!!  Having the General Superintendent sitting in the front row can intimidate any speaker – or maybe just me!

But I brought my best this morning.  It was early and I was exhausted.  I hope each person felt inspired and challenged.  I spoke about the “spiritual itch” – it is the re-occuring theme of my life and heart over the last few months!

Here’s an excerpt …

“Anybody feeling a little itchy right now? I saw some of you scratching. I mean we all have had itches in our life haven’t we? We’ve all had itches in unreachable places. You ever have that itch that’s right in the part of your back that you cannot get to? You try to stretch for it and you can’t get it. You try to go this way and you can’t get it. We have all had that itch.

We also have had that itch where you cannot scratch publically. Like standing in front of a few hundred people. You cannot scratch publically those kinds of itches.

But we have also had that itch that moves. You have that itch that you scratch and the next thing you know what happens- it’s everywhere it’s almost like the itch spreads. I mean we have all had that in our journey.

I have had a run in with poison oak. It won. I mean I got hit with this thing. I tried to medicate the poison oak, I tried to do everything right. I tried not to scratch it but I’m a very impatient person. Anyone impatient in the house? I am an impatient person. I mean, I just- Okay, so were talking to the right group today. You guys are going to be scratching all day long. I mean you start scratching and scratching because I can’t wait for the medication, for the calamine lotion to do its trick.

See I think that all of us have in our lives a deep desire to do something. I think that there in an itch that God places in each and everyone of our hearts and spirits to do something significant and important for God. You cant ignore it, you cant run away from it, you have to embrace it and scratch the itch- the call of god on your life. I guess the question has to be, what kind of itch are we born with? What eternal desire has god given to you and to me and to a movement like this? It is a desire that God places deep within our hearts and lives. It is something we cannot escape or run away from. God has placed in our spiritual DNA, the desire to do something within our lives. Something that matters beyond who we are to what we can do for the great, big, amazing God that we serve.

Don’t you just love God? I mean think about all that he has done for us. I am so glad that God had an itch. I am so glad God had an itch and it was to reach out to a lost humanity and reach them with the love of Jesus Christ. I am so glad that he scratched the itch and sent his son Jesus Christ to die on the cross for your sins and mine. I am so glad that Jesus said “yes” to the itch of the Father. He gave up his life for your sins and my sins and today now we all get to scratch that same itch. We get to share the life changing power of the gospel of Jesus Christ with everyone, everywhere.

Aren’t you glad God did that?

You are in a fellowship that has an itch. I mean think about it, a group of ministers had an itch in 1914, where they got this itch, this desire to launch a network of ministry to spread the Gospel throughout the world through the power of the Holy Spirit.

Boy, look at the living proof of what happens when someone or a group scratches an itch. We’re living proof of the “AG itch” and now together we are scratching the itch to make God known in the world.

Living proof – millions of people in thousands of churches across this planet.  Wow.  I am honored to be a small part of this itch God has given to us!”





Lessons on Parenting/Ministry from Brian Houston

22 10 2010

Here are some more learnings from Brian Houston, Pastor of Hillsong.  It was an amazing day of leadership.  I am still inspired and am applying many of the principles to my life & ministry.

Principles of Parenting:

  • Every child has their own free will.  Don’t judge a parent/pastor by their kids.
  • Be who you are in the pulpit and in private.
  • Kids have bigger memories than you.  Watch your behavior.
  • You will teach by who you are.
  • Don’t make your kids suffer in ministry – let them see the joy of service to God – keep them away from the pains of ministry.
  • Put your kids/spouse/family OVER the ministry.
  • Let your kids be kids.
  • Back the authorities of your kids.
  • Don’t put too much pressure or expectations on them.  Hard to live up to.
  • Non-negotiable – you live in my house and you will go to church.

Wow.  I loved this part of our time together.  Great wisdom from one of the great leaders in the Church.





A Little Insanity

4 10 2010

When you go back to Joseph’s first dreams you have to admit it sounds crazy … yea … “Sure, our little brother is going to rule over us.”  Crazy, right?

Joseph was the youngest – why would the youngest ever get the position of honor?  That is reserved for the first-born.  The audacity of Joseph.

Well, crazy people are usually pretty audacious … they are filled with a shameless boldness.

Why was Joseph so bold about this dream?  Because it was from God

We must let the size of our God determine the size of our dream.

You and I serve a HUGE God … bigger than any problem … sickness … sin … pain … past experience … obstacle … or hang-up!  He is able to turn any situation inside-out, upside-down and right-side up for His Glory.  Just look at Joseph … for 13 years is waited believing the dream that God shared!

Crazy!

Here’s a verse for our church today – Zechariah 4:10: “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the LORD rejoices to see the work begin…”

The work at The Point has begun … God is rejoicing at our insanity to believe that one day this church will impact Long Island … reaching more and more people than ever before … God is smiling at our hopes … because it is His hope.





Maintaining Your Marriage in Ministry

1 10 2010

Marriage is the sacred union between a man and a woman.  According to Barna Research divorce rates among conservative Christians are significantly higher than other faith groups, and much higher than Agnostics and Atheists.  That hurts!  With Christ in our marriages they should be succeeding!

Why is that marriage fail?

  • Sexual Unfaithfulness (this does mean just sex either – porn, lust, etc)
  • Financial Mismanagement
  • Miscommunication

You could add so much more to that list, but that’s the BIG 3.  I have seen more Christian marriages falling apart at the seams in the last few years.  It pisses me off.  Yep, I said it.  I get so mad when I hear another story.  God originated marriage and we have distorted it.  It’s so easy to cheat – look at the porn in the privacy of your office – no one will ever know.  It’s easy to miscommunicate – especially when husbands are working 40-60 hours per week and hanging with friends more than family.  It’s easy to mess up financially - the current financial situation makes poor financial decisions come to the surface.

Marriage requires work, honesty, integrity, commitment, patience, understanding and so much more!  If marriage was easy we would not have divorce!  Simple, but true.

Marriage in the ministry requires a lot of work.  I have the most amazing woman in the world – Mary is everything I could ever have dreamed of – I mean, everything.  She surpassed all my hopes and expectations.  So why would I ever risk forfeiting that!!!  It has been an amazing 9 year journey so far …

So how do we maintain our marriage in ministry …

  • I am home more than I am away.  I used to keep a pretty rigid schedule – 5-6 nights a week out doing “ministry.”  Today I am home 5-6 nights per week maintaining my marriage & family.  Plus I try to limit my travel time, unless I can take my family with me.
  • I pray.  This is an overlooked marriage builder, but I pray for our marriage.  I have a prayer mantra that I have prayed for 9 years – “Lord, keep my eyes only for my wife.”  I want to make sure that no other woman would ever captivate me like my wife.  Prayer keeps my emotions in check.
  • I read God’s Word.  Yep, another simple one.  Did you know that reading the Bible 4 times a week or more creates a 70% decrease in adultery and a 60% decrease in online porn (according to ABS).  Reading God’s Word strengthens our marriages.  And not for sermon content, but for personal growth!!!
  • I have no best friends of the opposite sex.  I do not share or confide in any member of the opposite sex.  I have placed safe-guards in our marriage to make sure that my spouse is my confidant.  No private dinners or coffee appointments with females – ever!!!
  • Many family nights.  We spend so much time as a family that they have become irreplaceable.  I could not imagine life with any other people.  In fact, I can’t remember what life was like before my family.
  • My marriage is my priority.  If that means avoiding phone calls or not answering emails in order to spend time with Mary than that’s what I will do.  I have made a commitment to let nothing drive a wedge in our marriage.
  • Communication is the key.  With a crazy busy ministry schedule Mary and I have to constantly talk about balance.  And there are times that I have to pull back and re-adjust my schedule.  Now with Malachi is 1st grade we have to really communicate!
  • Guard social media relationships.  I can’t believe how “open” people are on facebook or twitter.  It is almost sad.  People will share their deepest emotional struggles and pains with people they don’t know – we can’t fall into the “savior” mentality.  Watch out who you follow and friend!
  • Talk about your spouse in your sermons.  Let the church know the value of your marriage.  Don’t be silent on the most important “earthly” relationship you have.  Let men know your wife is a priority to you!  Let women know to stay away from you because you are devoted to your spouse.  SIDE NOTE – don’t share negativity or make fun of your spouse publicly – only honor & praise!!!

I am honored and humbled that God has allowed me the privilege of doing ministry and having a marriage.  My prayer is simply that “God would allow our marriage to be a testimony that it works when God is in it and the safeguards are in place.”





The Download – 9.27.10

27 09 2010

I love Sundays at The Point.  I seldom miss.  Actually there are 2 reasons I will miss a Sunday: (1) Vacation or (2) Opportunity.  I will typically miss 3 Sundays a year for vacation and a few more for opportunities to share in other churches.  I love our church.  I love our people.

We are gearing up for 10.10.10.  Yesterday we ran through a pilot set-up and we succeeded.  We were ready to go!  Needed a few more moments for hospitality, but not too far behind.

Worship was amazing.  Pastor Micki & the team did a superb job.  No attitudes on this team!!!

The message was awesome.  Pastor Nick brought a great teaching.  Love that I don’t have to preach to love my church!!!

A lot of guests.  Great attendance.  Poor offering <— true.

13 days.  I can’t wait to download the results of 10.10.10.





Crazy Pill

11 09 2010

Can’t wait to kick-off our Crazy Pill teaching series tomorrow. Oh man, it is going to rock.  Worship looks amazing and the message hopes to motivate.

Don’t miss The Point tomorrow – 10:30 am.





The Point Partners with Park Avenue

7 09 2010

The Point church converged on Park Avenue School this morning to give out 400+ backpacks to the 1st grade & Special Ed.  Wow.  We saw so many smiles from the students and received too many “thank yous” from students & faculty.  What a morning to continue our Servolution series.

Here’s a few pics from the day …


Point Church – WE did it!  Thanks for your time, donations and prayers!





Last Day

2 09 2010

Can’t believe that it is September.  Unbelievable!  Today was our last day handing out breakfast bars for the summer.  Not gonna lie – I am a little disappointed!  Love meeting new people and demonstrating the love of Christ.

Today was so cool for the following reasons:

  • A gentleman said to me, “You are my favorite person.”  Serving makes a huge difference.  It is simply about making someone feel valued.
  • One of the cabbies told us, “Thanks for spending your mornings with us,” as we were walking away.  We gave them bfast every Thursday for the last 5 weeks!
  • Seeing people smile.  I love that feeling that you helped someone start the day off right!
  • Repeat Outreach.  People know us now.  Very cool.  Love the vibe that they give when they show appreciation for being served – with NO strings attached.
  • It starts my day off on a buzz.  I am always flying after we do an outreach.  No matter what it is!  I am flying high today.
  • We are following the Great Commission of GOING … not waiting for people to come to us.  That’s how Jesus did it.

Already thinking about some upgrades for next year!

What will The Point do next???  Hhhmmm … got some ideas!!!!





Baptism

29 08 2010

Two weeks ago I had the privilege of baptizing one of my dearest friends.  It was about 1 year ago that his wife took the plunge and went public.  It is so exciting to be part of people’s spiritual growth.


So proud of you – Jeff & Chris!!!!!





Even more lessons from the Jonas Brothers

24 08 2010

The phenom has caught on. I can’t believe that the posts I have written about JB has drawn more readers than any post over the last 2 years.  Unbelievable.  Who would have thought that comparing the Jonas Brothers to Church would be so catchy.  Anyway … let’s continue.

Here are my final lessons …

1.  Never settle.
I love that JB was willing to take a risk.  They stepped out of the comfort of Wyckoff, NJ and landed a huge following across the nation.  Church – don’t settle.  Step up and do something HUGE for God.  Let’s fill some stadiums of worshippers of God.

2.  Honor your fans/members.
I have watched musicians for a lot of years.  Most that succeed will always honor their fans.  They will say things like, “We love you NY.”  That don’t mention anyone by name but identifying with their location goes a long way.  Honor the people in your church – staff, volunteers, members and attenders.

3.  Provide reminders of the experience.
I can them tokens.  They are “altars” that are built to remind people of the experience.  The altar was never about the location it was always about what God did!  JB gives out t-shirts, glow sticks, posters, pictures, calendars, bags and more.  Churches must place things in the hands of their people that remind them of their mission!

4.  Longevity matters.
I am not sure how long the average teen band lasts, but JB has been around for 5 years.  That seems long for a teen sensation.  But they are always writing music, performing & acting.  They are looking to last.  Pastor – bloom where you are planted.  Don’t wish or hope for something “greener” – outlast and watch how God causes the growth!

5.  Mission mobilizes.
JB gives to some amazing initiatives.  One of them is Convoy of Hope.  When things went down in Haiti Joe Jonas sent $30,000.  It also inspires others to give.  Nick Jonas has diabetes and helps raise awareness and funds.  When the church gives to missions it inspires the people to grow larger and make a more significant impact locally and globally.

6. Multiple Streams of Impact
Churches are typically one-dimensional – meaning that we typically focus on Sundays alone, but we must impact our communities 365.  Acts teaches us that every day the “Lord added to the church” – it grew every day.  God, give me that kind of church.  JB has music, tv shows, movies and more giving them a larger platform.  We must be creative and launch multiple streams of Kingdom Impact.

Okay. I promise. That’s the last “Lessons from Jonas” posts.  I guess you can officially call me a JOBRO.








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