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Have you ever felt stretched? I mean, to that point where you feel like you are beyond your capacity. There have been several times in life and ministry where I have been stretched. But the greatest faith moment (“stretching”) has been the process of launching The Point Church. It has been a great ride, but the stretching has been evident.
Stretching is a good thing. It expands your capacity and influence.
Over the last 2 1/2 years + I believe that I have grown as a Christian, husband, parent, leader, teacher and friend. The stretching has not always been easy. In fact, when God stretches you it is a lot like working out – it hurts a bit, but ultimately it feels good!
Stretching is a growth thing. It helps you achieve and live God’s plan for your life!
Where is God stretching you? The more He stretches you, the more your capacity increases!
Here are some more learnings from Brian Houston, Pastor of Hillsong. It was an amazing day of leadership. I am still inspired and am applying many of the principles to my life & ministry.
Principles of Parenting:
Wow. I loved this part of our time together. Great wisdom from one of the great leaders in the Church.
Wow. I had the amazing privilege to sit around a table with 18 others pastors from across the US for an intimate gathering with Brian Houston – Pastor of Hillsong. I could not believe that I was included in this moment in history – considering the people who were invited and attended. I was honored and humbled. Still am. We are such a young, small church with long-term visions and big dreams. This was inspirational.
Here some leadership lessons from our day together.
Brian gave us the key to REAL LEADERSHIP – “Ask more questions than you are telling.”
Wow. 6 hours of learning from one of the great leaders in the Church today. So glad I was asked to be a part of it. So glad I made it.
I hard to believe that 3 years ago Mary and I assembled a Launch Team to help start The Point Church. Crazy how time really flies! We spent a lot of time teaching, praying, preparing and strategizing with this team of 44 people. They are some of my greatest friends and biggest fans. It sounds amazing to have that base of people – but fast-forward and only 8 are still part of our church (including my wife and I).
There were several mistakes I made with our Launch Team:
Well, even though I made some mistakes as a leader. Too many to blog about, I can still thank God that He is building His Church in Westbury. We have grown by 30% in the last 2 years. Nearly 200 people have started a relationship with Jesus. 53% of our church serves on a ministry team. I could go on and on.
Here’s the key: Make mid-course corrections. Don’t be too proud to adjust your leadership style and your strategies. It has made all the difference in the world at The Point!!!
I know that is sounds too simple, but “leaders lead.” It’s that simple. I know that the American Church has adopted the democratic system of church – vote on this, establish a committee for that and don’t do anything without consensus. But yet leaders often feel trapped by that process. I believe that God has called leaders to lead.
Great example. Jesus. He led his team. The team did not lead him or redirect his vision to “seek and save those that are lost.” They embraced his mission. Jesus didn’t take votes. He trained, raised up and released His Disciples to do the work of ministry. It was that simple.
Yes, there are leaders who abuse their leadership.
I remember as we were developing a Constitution for The Point I attempted to create a succession plan for the Lead Pastor, but it came down to a “vote” – had to. I remember the suggestion that “people want to vote on who their pastor was.” My response was, “Israel wanted a king. How did that work out?” Pretty quick, but not the best response. Although I believe in what I said, just not the way I said it.
Did God’s people vote on Joshua after Moses died? Nope. Joshua was God’s Man for that moment in history. No vote necessary.
I also have met a lot of pastors who hide behind their Board. Yep. “I have to talk to the Board.” “I need to get their permission.” Now I know there are times when we need advice and wisdom, but don’t hide behind the Board for decisions you are well-able to make.
So how should a leader lead?
My prayer is that God would make me the leader he has called me to be. A leader worth following. A leader who laughs at life. A leader who inspires a dream in peoples heart.
The X Conference is moving along. We have an amazing lineup of presenters:
These guys are amazing! In our lineup we have one of the largest churches in the US and one of the fastest growing churches too. Awesome leaders/pastors/friends!!!
One of the changes we have made is to create INTERACTIVES instead of workshops. They will feature 2 of our presenters in each session and it will be Q&A … gonna be fun!
Plus we have added more time for NETWORKING – this will allow all our guests an opportunity to connect with other leaders and our presenters!
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When you go back to Joseph’s first dreams you have to admit it sounds crazy … yea … “Sure, our little brother is going to rule over us.” Crazy, right?
Joseph was the youngest – why would the youngest ever get the position of honor? That is reserved for the first-born. The audacity of Joseph.
Well, crazy people are usually pretty audacious … they are filled with a shameless boldness.
Why was Joseph so bold about this dream? Because it was from God
We must let the size of our God determine the size of our dream.
You and I serve a HUGE God … bigger than any problem … sickness … sin … pain … past experience … obstacle … or hang-up! He is able to turn any situation inside-out, upside-down and right-side up for His Glory. Just look at Joseph … for 13 years is waited believing the dream that God shared!
Crazy!
Here’s a verse for our church today – Zechariah 4:10: “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the LORD rejoices to see the work begin…”
The work at The Point has begun … God is rejoicing at our insanity to believe that one day this church will impact Long Island … reaching more and more people than ever before … God is smiling at our hopes … because it is His hope.
It was a July day in 1401 when The Cathedral at Seville in Southern Spain decided to build a new church. The whole church met in the Court of Elms and according to oral tradition the members decided – “Let us build a church so great that those that come after us may think us mad to have attempted it.” To this day it stands as the 3rd largest church in the world. In the minutes of the meeting the church wanted to be a church “like no other.”
Wow … when I read this last week I was reminded of something that I wrote in 2007 about The Point – this church, this place we are at today … that we would build a church “like no other.”
No great church has ever been built without a great dream.
No great business has ever started without an audacious dream.
No great life was ever built in the absence of a huge dream.
Man, whatever happens – when people look at us – when other churches look at what we attempt to do – let other Christians be inspired by our commitment – and let everyone else think that we are insane … because I am filled with a CRAZY DREAM for an amazing God!
Let’s jump right into our guiding Scripture for today … Genesis 37:1-11 … and we are going to learn a few lessons from two CRAZY DREAMS that Joseph had … here we go … “Joseph, a young man of seventeen” – how old? Seventeen – “was tending the flocks with his brothers, the sons of Bilhah and the sons of Zilpah, his father’s wives, and he brought their father a bad report about them. 3 Now Israel loved Joseph more than any of his other sons, because he had been born to him in his old age; and he made a richly ornamented robe for him. 4 When his brothers saw that their father loved him more than any of them, they hated him and could not speak a kind word to him. 5 Joseph had a” – Joseph had a what? “a dream, and when he told it to his brothers, they hated him all the more. 6 He said to them, “Listen to this dream I had: 7 We were binding sheaves of grain out in the field when suddenly my sheaf rose and stood upright, while your sheaves gathered around mine and bowed down to it.” 8 His brothers said to him, “Do you intend to reign over us? Will you actually rule us?” And they hated him all the more because of his dream and what he had said. 9 Then he had another dream, and he told it to his brothers. “Listen,” he said, “I had another dream, and this time the sun and moon and eleven stars were bowing down to me.” 10 When he told his father as well as his brothers, his father rebuked him and said, “What is this dream you had? Will your mother and I and your brothers actually come and bow down to the ground before you?” 11 His brothers were jealous of him, but his father kept the matter in mind.”
Could you imagine telling your brothers and father that one day you will be their PRESIDENT!!! Most of us would laugh our heads off if our brother/sister told us that.
Not Joseph’s brothers. They decided to sell him as a slave and told their father he was killed by a wild animal.
Imagine this … Joseph has 2 dreams that he would be ruler – and he ends up as a slave. Now he’s in Egypt and is falsely accused by Potiphar’s wife – he now ends up in an Egyptian prison.
Wow. How quickly would we have forgotten about that dream? We would walk away from that dream passing it off as bad food that night.
Then Joseph is given an opportunity to interpret 2 more dreams – from prison – a baker and a butler share their dreams. Joseph explains them. The baker is killed. The butler is freed. The butler promises to remember him … but he forgets Joseph.
Years go by and Joseph is still forgotten.
Pharoah has a dream that no one can figure it. It was then that the butler remembers Joseph. Pharoah calls for Joseph – Joseph explains the dreams to him. Pharoah is so impressed that he makes Joseph ruler of all of Egypt!!!
Joseph experienced 13 years of what might look like a failed dream – but God ultimately made Joseph’s dreams a reality!
13 years! C’mon God!
Have you ever had a dream? A hope? And waited … and waited … and waited.
The problem is we want everything NOW … are you willing to wait? Are you following your dreams for the long-haul or the short-term?
Pursue the God-sized dreams you are called to seize!!
Marriage is the sacred union between a man and a woman. According to Barna Research divorce rates among conservative Christians are significantly higher than other faith groups, and much higher than Agnostics and Atheists. That hurts! With Christ in our marriages they should be succeeding!
Why is that marriage fail?
You could add so much more to that list, but that’s the BIG 3. I have seen more Christian marriages falling apart at the seams in the last few years. It pisses me off. Yep, I said it. I get so mad when I hear another story. God originated marriage and we have distorted it. It’s so easy to cheat – look at the porn in the privacy of your office – no one will ever know. It’s easy to miscommunicate – especially when husbands are working 40-60 hours per week and hanging with friends more than family. It’s easy to mess up financially – the current financial situation makes poor financial decisions come to the surface.
Marriage requires work, honesty, integrity, commitment, patience, understanding and so much more! If marriage was easy we would not have divorce! Simple, but true.
Marriage in the ministry requires a lot of work. I have the most amazing woman in the world – Mary is everything I could ever have dreamed of – I mean, everything. She surpassed all my hopes and expectations. So why would I ever risk forfeiting that!!! It has been an amazing 9 year journey so far …
So how do we maintain our marriage in ministry …
I am honored and humbled that God has allowed me the privilege of doing ministry and having a marriage. My prayer is simply that “God would allow our marriage to be a testimony that it works when God is in it and the safeguards are in place.”